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Tuesday, April 12, 2011

A matter of Saying


Sometimes, you have to let someone go and if the person comes back to you, that means you both are meant to be together.


I'm not fully agreed with the quotes. It is because,


Instead of letting go, why don't you just make him/her happy? Letting go will not improve the relationship. It'll make it worst. Seriously.


For me, at least.


Why would you want to let him/her go if you really loves that someone?




Or.. it is just a matter of quote? A quote to calm everyone down, a quote to give hopes to those who are brokenhearted?


Yeah. I think it is just a form of quotes. Nothing much.


So don't be fooled by the quotes. Once you let someone go from your life, it's hard to get them back into your life.


Harder IF the person used to be your lover.


It is because, what's the purpose of letting go, if you wished that it will come back later? Letting go means, you have to let go everything. Forget everything. And close everything.



If not, then it means that you're just playing around. You just simply let someone go, just because you believe that later, he or she will come back to you.


You don't even consider his or her feelings.


So ladies and gentlemen, if you love someone, try to make him or her happy for being with you rather than to let them go.


Bear in mind that, once you have decided to let someone go, it means that you have to reformat everything about that particular someone, and find somebody else to move on.


P/S: One small decision can change everything.


SEKIAN, 6.32pm. Pictures from : Flickr.

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

kalau dah jodoh tak kemana eyka.. :)

EykaHamasuba said...

macam berserah betul bunyiknye. hehe tapi betul la tu kot. er. entah. :)

NurulAtiqah said...

Sometimes biarkan seseorang itu pergi itu lebih baik daripada bertahan kalau everything tak menjadi. and when the person comes back mungkin memang betul dia jodoh kamu. :)

syamimi fatin said...

agree with u :)

Hazira said...

yang saya faham, 'let him/her go' bila dah tahu dia dah tak sayangkan kita, so biarkan dia pergi untuk cari kebahagiaan dia. kita mesti nak orang yang kita sayang happy kan.. so, takkan kita nak paksa dia sayang kita walaupun kita sayang gila2 kat dia.. ini yang saya fahamlah.. :)

● ZroTHnkeR™ said...

opss..
for me, it depend situation~

sebabnye, tak ada guna kamu terus2 nak paksa dia sukai diri kamu, kalau dalam hatinya, mendambai diri orang lain.. better kt biarkannya pergi pada org yg dia sayang, tak perlu nk bunuh2an tak perlu nk berbenci2an, tak perlu nk buang semua rasa yang pernah ada.
bila kita lihat dirinya bahagia, berbandng dirinya rasa terseksa dgn diri kita kerana punya rasa cinta pada orang lain.

apepun, saya tetap mengatakan.. it depend situation~ lagipun quote tu... ada meletakkan SOMETIMES~ .. jadi faham2lah~ hehe..

maaf, ini cuma pendapat saya.. ;)~

p/s: One small point can change everything..

miwwa J said...

hihi betul jugak tu =)

-luqman- said...

agree with that last quote and what you said make sense :)

sy@hir @hoy said...

Quotes may sound corny, yet, it based on actual events, 'coz they used to face it. However, they'd survived & be stronger than ever.

To let a person go & wish him/her happy (though they used to hurt us) doesn't mean that we give up or surrender. Rather, we put a break up into perspective; that everything happen for a reason.

By all means, we don't sweat the break up & spend less energy on mourning relationship that are over.

Though it's hurt, it takes time to heal. Eventually things get better.

At least Allah SWT sent someone that used to make us happy in the past. It's all revolved around Qada' & Qadar. 'coz Allah tak pernah menzalimi makhluknya.

~ Just my opinion Eyka :)

adiratnashee said...

homai eyka. we have the same idea
http://adiratnashee.blogspot.com/2010/05/true.html

cimon said...

yep! also agree with u.

p/s: nice pics again

EykaHamasuba said...

NurulAtiqah,
i think better takyah mengharap org tu utk come back kan. lupekan je terus.. kan kan kan :')




syamimi,
thanks fatin. hehe:D



zroThnker,
yeah, sometimes. hehehe tapi betul la tu, kalau dah tak hepi together lepaskan je la kan.. cume dah lepas tu tak leh nak berharap la bnde tu kembali. kire entry eyka menyatakan supaye macam, before buat apape, fikir dulu due tige kali. hehehe :P




miwwa J,
ye ke? ape yg betul? hek hek :P




luqman,
thanks! :D



syahir,
yes, indeed. hoho. lagipun tah kat mane eyka terbace, kite patut hargai someone tu bile die tengah ade kat kite, sbb one day bile die pergi, kite tah leh nak buat apape dah. haha. quote dari movie ape tah. keh keh




adiratnashee,
WAHHH pendapat kite serupa! hehehe, tapi betul la kan. tak leh nak let go sgt kalau kite harap die datang balik, baik takyah letgo. huhu



cimon,
thanks cimon. pendek nye komennye. selalu panjang. hehehe :D

adiratnashee said...

precisely. letgo konon cool. main lego lagi best :)

EykaHamasuba said...

hahahaha! rindu pulak nak main lego. isk isk. tp sometimes, no other choices kene let go jugak kan walaupun bukan dengan rela hati. maybe sbb tu diorang berharap utk kembali kot haha entah le. pelik2 manusie.

Eim Ossen said...

so sweet...nice one.

cik aletheea : said...

tapi..tapi.. what if you truly love him, you’ll learn to set him free in your heart and accept the fact that he’s happy somewhere else. Because if he isn’t, he should have come running straight back to you, the moment you got out of his life kan..kan.. (T_T)

EykaHamasuba said...

Ohh nak buat camne cik aletheea kalau benda tu terjadi, kena redha je la nampak gayenye. Dah laki tu move on, perempuan tu pun patut move on jugak. :)

Noor™ said...

Yang ini pun saya suka.